About Intrinsic Vicissitude
Real Life. Meaningful Change. A Chance to Begin Again.
Life rarely follows the path we expect.
Sometimes change arrives because we choose it. Other times, circumstances make the decision for us. Divorce, financial struggles, career changes, family responsibilities, and unexpected setbacks can leave us wondering what comes next.
And sometimes, we simply reach a point where we know something needs to be different.
That’s where Intrinsic Vicissitude comes in.

I’m Laure, the creator behind Intrinsic Vicissitude. I started this project because I believe we have more ability to shape our lives than we sometimes realize. We can’t control every circumstance, undo every disappointment, or guarantee that things will turn out the way we hope. But we can learn, adapt, make new choices, and find ways to move forward.
Intrinsic Vicissitude is about exploring those possibilities, one step at a time.
From Rewrite Your Life Story to Intrinsic Vicissitude
Intrinsic Vicissitude began as my personal blog, Rewrite Your Life Story. The original name reflected a simple idea: our experiences may shape us, but they don’t have to determine every chapter that follows.
As the project grew, I wanted a name that captured the deeper idea behind it.
The word intrinsic refers to something that belongs to the essential nature of a person or thing. Vicissitude describes a change in circumstances, often one that comes with the unpredictable nature of life.
Together, the words represent the idea at the heart of this site: we each have the capacity to respond to life’s changes and influence the direction of our own stories.
That doesn’t mean we can control everything. Life doesn’t work that way.
It means we can look for opportunities to grow, recognize when an old approach no longer serves us, and give ourselves permission to try something different.
Sometimes that change is dramatic. More often, it begins with a small decision, a new habit, a different perspective, or the willingness to take one more step.
I Want to Share a Realistic Approach to Personal Growth
Personal development can sometimes make change look easier than it is.
We’re told to think positively, set ambitious goals, establish perfect morning routines, and keep pushing forward. Those ideas can be useful, but they don’t always account for the realities of everyday life.
We have responsibilities. We get tired. Plans fall apart. Motivation disappears. And sometimes, the obstacles we face aren’t things we can overcome with a better attitude or a more organized planner.
I believe personal growth should make room for those realities.
At Intrinsic Vicissitude, positivity doesn’t mean ignoring difficult circumstances or pretending that every setback is an opportunity in disguise. It means looking honestly at where we are and considering what might help us move forward.
Progress doesn’t always happen in a straight line. A step backward doesn’t erase everything you’ve learned, and changing your mind doesn’t necessarily mean you’ve failed.
You are allowed to adjust your plans, redefine your goals, and begin again.
You don’t have to become a completely different person to create meaningful change. Sometimes, you simply need a different approach.
What You’ll Find at Intrinsic Vicissitude
This site explores practical ideas for personal development, intentional living, and navigating the changes life brings.
Personal Growth and Mindset
Explore ways to develop healthier habits, build confidence, strengthen resilience, and approach challenges with greater self-awareness.
Personal growth isn’t about fixing everything that’s supposedly wrong with you. It’s about understanding yourself better, recognizing your strengths, and finding opportunities to learn.
Motivation, Goals, and Productivity
Discover practical approaches to setting meaningful goals, managing your time, building momentum, and making progress without turning productivity into another source of pressure.
The goal isn’t to do more simply for the sake of doing more. It’s to spend your time and energy on the things that matter to you.
Mindfulness and Self-Care
Find ideas for creating moments of calm, managing everyday stress, establishing realistic self-care habits, and making room for your own well-being.
Self-care doesn’t have to be elaborate or expensive. Sometimes, it’s as simple as recognizing that you need a break, setting a boundary, or giving yourself permission to slow down.
Navigating Change and Starting Over
Life transitions can challenge our sense of identity, stability, and direction. Explore ideas for adapting to new circumstances, rebuilding confidence, and finding a path forward when life doesn’t look the way you expected.
Starting over doesn’t mean your previous experiences were wasted. You bring what you’ve learned with you.
I Believe Small Steps Can Lead to Meaningful Change
You don’t have to overhaul your entire life to make a difference.
Maybe you want to establish a habit you’ve struggled to maintain. Perhaps you’re trying to find your direction after a major life change. Or maybe you simply want to feel less overwhelmed and more intentional about how you spend your days.
Whatever brings you here, you can start with what feels manageable.
Choose one thing you’d like to improve. Get curious about what’s been holding you back. Try a different approach. Pay attention to what works, and give yourself room to adjust when it doesn’t.
If you need to pause, that’s okay. If your priorities change, you can change with them.
Meaningful progress isn’t always about moving faster. Sometimes, it’s about finding a direction that fits the life you’re living now.
Let’s Keep Growing Together!
Intrinsic Vicissitude is an evolving project built around the belief that change is possible, growth is personal, and no single path works for everyone.
I hope you’ll find ideas here that help you think differently, discover practical solutions, and recognize opportunities you might not have considered before.
Take what helps. Adapt what you learn to your own circumstances. Leave behind anything that doesn’t serve you.
And remember: your story isn’t limited to the chapters you’ve already lived.
You can learn from your past, make choices in the present, and keep shaping what comes next.
Welcome to Intrinsic Vicissitude.
I’m glad you’re here.
Where Would You Like to Begin?
- Explore practical ideas for personal growth and building better habits.
- Discover approaches to mindfulness and everyday self-care.
- Find strategies for setting goals and building sustainable motivation.
- Learn how to begin again when life takes an unexpected turn.
There’s no single right place to start. Choose the topic that speaks to where you are today, or browse around the site to see what inspires you.